About Sacred Dearmoring – Transformative Tantra Healing in Las Vegas – Overview of Healing Services

We offer a range of Tantra-based services – from Tantra massage for women, men, and couples to couples’ Tantra workshops & retreats, trauma healing, Tantra education, and the specialized practice of sacred dearmoring, including yoni dearmoring for women and prostate massage and prostate de-armoring for men.  If you are looking for true tantra healing or tantric healing massage, you have found what you are looking for.  Our approach is trauma-informed, deeply respectful, and tailored to your needs. I ensure you feel safe, comfortable, and fully supported at every step. In the sections below, I’ll share more about each of these transformative offerings, how they can benefit you, and why Sacred Dearmoring stands out as a beacon of professionalism and compassion in the world of Tantra healing.

Meet Your Tantra Guide: A Compassionate Expert in Healing and Intimacy

Hello, I’m Ron, the founder of Sacred Dearmoring. As a certified Tantra educator and Sacred Intimacy Coach, I have dedicated my life to mastering the art of healing through touch, energy, and mindful presence. With extensive training under world-renowned Tantra masters and healers, as well as hands-on experience in massage and somatic therapies, I bring a wealth of knowledge and heart-centered wisdom to each session. My background spans modalities like deep tissue massage, trigger point therapy, breathwork, meditation, tantric massage, Sacred De-Armoring, sacred plant medicine, and advanced energy work (including Kundalini activation and chakra balancing). I’ve also studied trauma release methods and relationship coaching, learning to gently guide individuals through releasing deep-seated emotional pain and past traumas.

My mission is simple yet profound: to empower you to heal, transform, and reclaim your innate joy and power. I believe that everyone deserves to experience the fullness of life and love. Whether you’re carrying the weight of past trauma, seeking a deeper connection with your partner, or simply curious about the bliss of Tantra, I am here to hold a safe and sacred space for you. Think of me as your guide – I walk beside you with empathy, patience, and intuitive understanding, helping you navigate the path toward healing and ecstasy at a pace that feels right for you. Each journey with me is grounded in integrity, consent, and respect for your boundaries.

Are you ready to discover what true holistic healing feels like? Picture stepping into a tranquil private oasis just minutes from the Las Vegas Strip, yet worlds away from the noise. Soft music plays and gentle incense swirls as you enter a warm, inviting space. From the moment you arrive, you’ll sense that this is a place where you can finally exhale. Here, you are seen, heard, and cared for as the divine being you are. My role is to honor your journey – I invite you to release what no longer serves you and embrace the vibrant, authentic self that is ready to shine. Using a blend of ancient sacred practices and modern understanding, I craft each session to ignite your life-force energy, awaken your senses, and facilitate deep emotional release. The result? Many clients say they feel truly alive for the first time in years – relaxed, energized, emotionally lighter, and filled with a renewed passion for life.  

Tantra Massage for Women: Reclaim Your Feminine Power and Pleasure

Tantra massage for women is a sacred invitation to come home to your body and embrace your feminine essence through true tantric healing. In today’s fast-paced world, many women carry not just physical tension but also emotional wounds and stress that dampen their inner light. Perhaps you’ve experienced heartbreak, trauma, or the exhaustion of always caring for others before yourself. Over time, these experiences can create energetic blockages and a sense of disconnection from your own sensuality and joy. I understand how that feels, and I’m here to guide you gently back to yourself.

During a Tantra healing massage session for women at Sacred Dearmoring, you will be warmly welcomed and thoroughly supported. We start by discussing your intentions, concerns, and any boundaries you wish to set. Communication is key – you are encouraged to voice your needs and comfort levels throughout. The massage itself is a slow, mindful full-body massage that incorporates elements of therapeutic touch, sensual massage, and guided breathwork. Using warm, organic oils, I apply a combination of soothing strokes and delicate, intentional touch to melt away tension. As you breathe deeply and relax, you will feel a gentle awakening of your sensual energy. This life-force energy (often called Shakti in Tantra) begins to flow more freely, dissolving numbness and inviting waves of pleasant sensation.

A unique aspect of our women’s sessions is the potential inclusion of yoni massage and yoni dearmoring – a deeply respectful, healing focus on the womb and vaginal area (yoni is the Sanskrit word for the female sacred space). If you choose to experience this during your tantra healing massage, know that it is approached with the utmost reverence and consent. Many women hold past trauma, shame, or pain in the yoni, which can manifest as numbness, sexual discomfort, or emotional blockages. Yoni dearmoring uses very gentle, conscious touch (both externally and internally) on specific points to release this stored tension. As you surrender into this process, you might experience a cathartic emotional release – some women shed tears of relief as long-held grief or fear finally dissolves. Others feel a powerful reconnection with pleasure, even discovering the ability to experience full-body waves of bliss or a richer spectrum of sensation than ever before. Imagine feeling free, safe, and empowered in your body – that’s the gift a yoni massage can offer.

Throughout your session, I maintain a nurturing “divine masculine” presence – grounded, patient, and wholeheartedly present for you – creating a container of safety. You are free to simply receive without any expectations or obligations, without having to do anything in return . . . the gift of just receiving is often transformational itself. This may be the first time you truly allow yourself to let go and be taken care of. The benefits of a Tantra massage for women often include:

• Healing from Emotional Wounds: By releasing stored emotions and past hurts, you may feel lighter and more at peace, finally able to move forward without the old baggage.
• Awakening Your Sensuality: In a safe, sacred space, you can rekindle your natural sensual joy without judgment. Many women report feeling more vibrant, confident, and in tune with their bodies after a session.
• Stress and Anxiety Relief: The combination of loving touch, breathwork, and energy healing soothes your nervous system, melting away anxiety and tension. Feel the burdens of everyday life melt away as your body and mind come into harmony.
• Expand Pleasure:  Through tantric healing massage techniques, you will be able to experience more pleasure than you even thought possible.  Many of my clients experience full body orgasm, and even female ejaculatory orgasms for the first time in their life through a tantra massage.

Every woman’s journey is unique. Whether you seek deep healing, expansion of pleasure, or a mix of both, I tailor the session to honor your journey. By the end, my wish is that you feel worshipped, honored, and empowered – remembering that you are a goddess in your own right.  Read more . . . What to Expect in a Tantra Massage for Women . . . or . . .  More About Tantra Massage for Women in Las Vegas

Tantra Massage for Men: Embrace Healing, Vitality, and Inner Strength

Men need healing and sacred space just as much as women. Tantra massage for men is designed to help you break free from stress, shame, or emotional blockages and to foster a healthier, more joyful connection with your body. As men, we’re often taught to “be strong” and to bottle up our feelings – especially around sexuality and vulnerability. This can lead to issues like performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, or simply a feeling of disconnect between your heart and your sexuality. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by these challenges or longed for a deeper intimacy (either with a partner or within yourself), Tantra can offer a powerful path forward.

When you come in for a men’s Tantra session at Sacred Dearmoring, you’ll be in a judgment-free zone. I create a relaxed, discreet environment where you can feel comfortable discussing any concerns or goals – whether it’s overcoming a specific sexual difficulty or just de-stressing and learning to fully enjoy sensation without performance pressure. We usually begin with calming breathwork and a grounding exercise to help you unwind and drop out of your busy mind. Then, as you lie down, I use a combination of firm therapeutic massage techniques and light, energetic touch along your body to release muscle tension and stimulate the flow of sexual energy. You may notice a warm tingling or waves of pleasure as the energy moves – this is your body starting to open up and reconnect.  (Note that we have both male and female providers that work with both male or female clients . . . see our list of practitioners)

A highlight of the men’s Tantra massage can be the lingam massage and prostate massage (lingam is a Sanskrit term for the male sacred organ, and the prostate is sometimes called the “male G-spot”). If included, these intimate practices are approached with professionalism and care. The lingam massage involves rhythmic, conscious stroking of the genital area not for a quick release, but to spread pleasure throughout the body and teach you how to ride waves of sensation without rushing to climax. This practice can greatly increase your stamina and ejaculation control, giving you more choice and confidence in your intimate experiences. Prostate massage, performed only with your full consent and comfort, involves internal stimulation of the prostate gland (through gentle anal touch). This is an incredibly powerful center for male pleasure and also a reservoir of unexpressed emotion and tension. Many men are astonished at how therapeutic and liberating a prostate massage can be. By activating this sacred spot, it’s possible to unlock deep feelings of vulnerability and release pent-up emotions (it’s not uncommon for a man to experience a wave of unexpected emotion or tears as that tension releases). You might also discover new realms of pleasure that go beyond a typical ejaculation – some men experience a prostate orgasm or a full-body energetic orgasm that leaves them deeply relaxed and blissful.

Throughout your session, I encourage you to breathe deeply and allow whatever sensations or emotions arise without shame. This is a space where you don’t have to “perform” or pretend – you can simply be. The benefits of Tantra massage for men often include:

• Stress Reduction and Relaxation: You will likely leave with a clear mind and a relaxed body, having released the stress and pressure you walked in with.
• Improved Sexual Confidence: Learning to control and channel your sexual energy can dissolve performance anxiety. You gain confidence as you discover you are capable of prolonged pleasure and deeper intimacy, without rushing or fear.
• Emotional Release: It’s okay for men to cry and let go. Many clients quietly release years of held-in sadness or trauma during the bodywork. Afterward, they describe feeling lighter, open-hearted, and more emotionally balanced.
• Ejaculation Control:  Learn how to transform an ejaculatory orgasm into a full-body orgasm without ejaculation, increasing vitality, connection with your partner, and having sex as long as you want.

All sessions for men are conducted with the highest level of professionalism, respect, and privacy. As a male practitioner, I understand the courage it takes to seek this kind of help. I am honored to support you in becoming the most empowered and authentic man you can be – one who is relaxed in his body, clear in his mind, and open in his heart.  Read more . . . Tantra Massage for Men in Las Vegas

Tantra Massage for Couples: Ignite Passion and Deepen Your Connection

Even the strongest relationships need nurturing. Our Tantra massage for couples in Las Vegas is a heart-opening experience designed to bring you and your partner closer than ever. It offers a safe, sacred space for you both to slow down, communicate through touch, and rediscover the joy and excitement in your connection. Under the guidance of an experienced Tantra practitioner, you’ll explore each other in new ways – sharing breath, eye contact, and sensual massage techniques that let you truly be present with one another. Many couples say it feels like falling in love all over again, as they unlock new levels of intimacy and understanding.

Benefits for Couples:

• Passion Rekindled: Tantric touch and presence help reignite the spark. Couples often find their physical intimacy becomes exciting and fresh again, even long after the session.
• Better Communication & Trust: By practicing conscious touch and expressing desires in the session, you learn to communicate more openly. This fosters trust and empathy, making it easier to talk about your needs and feelings outside the session.
• Healing & Deeper Bond: A Tantra massage can gently expose and heal emotional blocks or past hurts between partners. Sharing this vulnerable, loving experience brings you closer together emotionally and spiritually – you emerge feeling like a true team, united in love.
  Read more . . . Tantra Massage for Couples in Las Vegas

Private Couples Tantra Retreats & Workshops

For couples who crave a deeper immersion, we offer private Tantra retreats and workshops in Las Vegas. These customized experiences give you dedicated time to transform your relationship on all levels. Imagine spending a day or a weekend focused entirely on each other, guided by expert Tantra teachers. In a private retreat, we blend hands-on practice, coaching, and relaxation. You and your partner will learn new Tantric techniques step by step – from shared breathwork and intimate massage lessons to heart-opening communication exercises. We pace the workshop to your comfort, allowing plenty of breaks to integrate and enjoy private moments together. Many couples use this as a mini-vacation for their love: by day you’re learning and healing in our serene Oasis Temple space (just minutes from the Strip), and by night you can enjoy the excitement of Las Vegas with a new spark between you.

Couples often tell us that a private retreat was the turning point in their relationship. By stepping away from daily routines and dedicating time to each other, you can reignite passion and deepen trust in a lasting way. You’ll leave with a toolbox of practices to keep the fire alive at home – and unforgettable memories of the profound journey you shared. Whether it’s an anniversary, a honeymoon, or “just because,” a Tantra retreat is the ultimate gift you can give yourselves as a couple.
Read more . . . Private Tantra Retreats for Couples

Trauma Healing and Emotional Release: Find Freedom from the Past

One of the core offerings at Sacred Dearmoring is trauma healing and release through somatic (body-based) therapy. Traumatic experiences – whether from childhood, past relationships, sexual abuse, or even high-stress careers – leave imprints not only in our minds but in our bodies. You might logically know that an event is over, yet still feel anxiety, fear, or numbness as if it were still happening. That’s because our bodies often hold onto trauma in the form of tension, pain, or emotional armor. Perhaps you experience this as a tightness in your chest, a “knot” in your stomach when stressed, or a sense of disconnection or numbness in certain parts of your body. I want you to know there is hope, and you can find peace again.

As a trauma-informed practitioner, I integrate gentle techniques specifically aimed at releasing these deep-seated blocks. In a trauma healing session, we create a very safe container. You don’t have to relive your trauma or even talk about it in detail if you don’t want to. Instead, we let your body lead the way. Through breathwork, you’ll be guided to breathe deeply into areas of tension, which starts to unlock stuck energy. With somatic bodywork, I use focused touch on trigger points or areas of the body where emotions are stored (common places include the hips, belly, jaw, and heart). Sometimes, simply placing a supportive hand on a tense spot while you breathe can allow an emotion to surface. You might suddenly feel like crying, or maybe anger bubbles up – these feelings are welcomed as part of the healing. I may encourage you to express them, perhaps by letting out a sound or moving your body in a certain way. This is known as emotional release work, and it can be incredibly liberating.

Another key tool in trauma healing is guided visualization and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). I can help you reframe negative beliefs and gently guide your mind toward empowerment, even as we work with the body. This synergy of mind and body helps dissolve old trauma patterns. Clients who undergo trauma release sessions often report feeling as if a huge weight has been lifted. Longstanding issues like anxiety, sleep disturbances, or even chronic physical pain can improve after a few sessions. You may find you can breathe easier (literally and metaphorically) and face daily stresses with more resilience. Importantly, these sessions also give you tools to cope if triggers arise in the future – perhaps a breathing technique to quickly calm yourself, or a simple movement that recenters you. My goal is not to create a dependency on our work, but to empower you to continue healing and growing long after you leave the session. Trauma healing is deeply personal, and I am honored to serve as a compassionate witness and guide as you reclaim your life from the shadows of the past.

Tantra Education & Sacred Intimacy Coaching: Empowering Your Love Life

True empowerment comes from understanding and integrating what you experience. That’s why, in addition to hands-on sessions, I offer Tantra education and sacred intimacy coaching to support you on your journey. Through personalized coaching and teaching, I demystify Tantra’s principles and give you practical tools to enrich your everyday life. You can learn how to use breathwork, meditation, and energy exercises to control and channel your sexual energy. I’ll teach you about the body’s energy centers (chakras) and how conscious touch and intention can turn intimacy into a deeply spiritual experience. This is not a dry lecture – it’s an interactive, down-to-earth exploration that often includes guided practices you can try on your own or with a partner. By deepening your knowledge, you become your own healer, able to weave Tantric techniques into your routine for stress relief, increased pleasure, and emotional balance.

Sacred intimacy coaching goes hand-in-hand with this education, focusing on the relational and emotional aspects of growth. In coaching sessions (in person or via video call), we can tackle real-life challenges – such as rebuilding trust after a betrayal, improving communication with your spouse, or overcoming anxiety about intimacy. I use my expertise in relationship dynamics and trauma recovery to help you break unhealthy patterns and cultivate the love life you truly desire. This might include practicing how to set boundaries and communicate needs without fear or guilt, learning exercises to increase emotional intimacy, or developing self-love rituals that build your confidence. Think of it as having a knowledgeable mentor devoted to your personal growth. Over time, you’ll likely find that you connect more authentically with others and with yourself. By combining Tantric knowledge with mindful coaching, you are empowered not only to have blissful experiences in sessions, but to transform your entire approach to love, sex, and connection in daily life.

Sacred Dearmoring: Releasing Your Protective Armor

You might be wondering, what exactly is “dearmoring”? Sacred dearmoring is at the heart of what we do – it refers to the process of releasing the “armor” we accumulate in our bodies and hearts due to pain, trauma, and emotional suppression. Over the course of life, each hurtful comment, heartbreak, or betrayal can cause us to tighten up a little, unconsciously guarding ourselves against future pain. This protective mechanism might help us cope temporarily, but in the long run it can leave us feeling closed off, numb, or stuck. It’s like wearing an invisible suit of armor: it shields us, but it also weighs us down and limits our ability to fully feel and connect.

In a Sacred Dearmoring session, my aim is to gently and skillfully help remove that armor. It’s an integrative experience that may include aspects of deep tissue massage, myofascial release, acupressure, energy work, and guided emotional expression. I often describe dearmoring as a “deep cleaning for the body and soul.” We approach it as a healing ceremony. You’re invited to set a clear intention at the start (for example, “I want to open my heart to love again” or “I want to release fear from my past”). We begin with rhythmic breathing and perhaps some movement or stretching to warm up your body and get your energy flowing. I may guide you through gentle vocalizations – even a simple sigh or a low hum – because sound vibrations help shake loose the tension inside.

Using intuitive touch, I then work through different areas of your body, slowly and methodically. Dearmoring often focuses on the chest, belly, hips, and pelvis, because our emotional center (heart) and our creative/sexual center (pelvis) are common places where we store armor. If we include yoni or prostate work as part of the session, that internal dearmoring is done very slowly and sensitively, always listening to your body’s signals and your comfort. At times, a spot might feel tender or emotionally intense – that’s often a sign we found a piece of “armor.” I’ll encourage you to breathe into it and allow whatever emotion is there (sadness, anger, even unexpected laughter) to come out. We might pause with sustained pressure on that point until you feel a shift – similar to releasing a trigger point in massage, but on an emotional level.

It’s not all intense; there are also moments of soothing and integration. After working through a heavy block, I might switch to lighter, comforting strokes or give you a quiet moment to rest and absorb the change. By the end of a dearmoring session, clients typically feel a profound sense of relief. You may feel “lighter” and more open, as if you literally set down a burden you’ve been carrying. Some describe it as a spiritual experience – feeling more connected to their true self, or even to something greater. It’s common to experience immediate positive shifts: taking deeper breaths, feeling your body more vividly, or having a fresh, optimistic perspective on an old issue.

Because dearmoring is such deep work, I often tell clients that one session can bring significant progress, and a series of sessions can truly change your life. We move at your pace; sometimes removing one layer of armor reveals another beneath it, and that’s okay. We honor each layer and release as much as your body and heart are ready to let go of in that moment. Importantly, I’m right there with you the whole time – providing a steady, compassionate presence. There is zero judgment in our space. Whether you tremble, cry, shout, or laugh, all of you is welcome. I’ve witnessed incredible transformations through this work: people who felt broken or blocked for years suddenly blooming into joy and creativity after shedding the armor that was holding them back.  Read More . . . What is De-Armoring . . . or . . . How to Release Emotional Armor and Have Emotional Freedom Through De-Armoring

Yoni Dearmoring & Yoni Massage: Healing Feminine Energy

Our yoni dearmoring service is a gentle healing process for women that focuses on releasing tension and trauma from the pelvic region. The yoni (Sanskrit for the female sacred temple) can carry memories of past hurt – whether from emotional heartbreak, sexual trauma, childbirth, or years of shame or neglect. In a yoni dearmoring session, I use soft, mindful touch and internal massage (only with your full consent) to help dissolve numbness or pain held in these tissues. This process is done slowly and respectfully, always honoring your boundaries. Many women find that as this protective armor melts away, they experience a profound emotional release and a rekindling of sensation. You might feel tears of relief, bursts of laughter, or waves of gentle pleasure as you reconnect with your body’s wisdom.

The benefits of yoni massage go beyond the physical. Women often report feeling empowered and whole after these sessions – as if they have reclaimed a part of themselves. Intimacy can become more joyful, and trust in oneself deepens. Whether you are seeking to heal from the past or simply to explore greater pleasure, yoni dearmoring offers a safe, sacred pathway to rediscovering the joy and freedom in your feminine energy.

Read more . . . Yoni Dearmoring and Yoni Massage

Prostate Massage, Lingam Massage, Dearmoring): Unlocking Male Healing

For men, we offer prostate massage, lingam massage, and prostate and anal dearmoring as a counterpart to yoni healing. The prostate – sometimes called the male sacred spot – is a powerful center of stored tension and emotion. Through careful, therapeutic prostate massage, we work to release that tension and restore healthy energy flow. With your consent, I use a gloved finger and gentle pressure to massage the prostate internally, combined with external lingam (penis) massage. This is done slowly and sensitively, ensuring you remain comfortable and relaxed. Men are often surprised at how much emotional relief and pleasure can come from this process – many describe it as deeply cathartic, as if years of stress or emotional numbness are lifted.

The benefits of prostate and lingam dearmoring include improved sexual function, enhanced pleasure, and emotional well-being. You may find better control over ejaculation, stronger and more satisfying erections, and even the ability to experience new types of orgasm (such as full-body or multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms) as your energy pathways open. More importantly, releasing tension from the pelvic area can leave you feeling profoundly relaxed, balanced, and confident. It’s a way of honoring the sacred masculine within, allowing you to embrace vulnerability and strength in harmony.  Read more . . . Benefits of Prostate Massage and Benefits of Lingam Massage

Client Testimonials: Real Healing Stories

“I never imagined I would find such profound healing in Las Vegas of all places. I came to Sacred Dearmoring feeling broken after an abusive relationship that left me distrustful and closed off. From the first phone call, Ron’s warmth and professionalism put me at ease. During my initial session, I felt layers of fear and grief melt away. In that safe, nurturing space, I was able to release deep trauma and finally trust again – first in myself, and then in him as a practitioner. I remember crying tears of relief as he worked on areas where I had been holding pain for years. Afterward, I felt grounded, secure, and confident, almost like a new woman. Ron isn’t just working on your body; he works with your soul to help you regain your power. I can’t thank him enough for the beautiful gift he’s given me. I highly recommend Sacred Dearmoring to anyone seeking true healing.” – Jessy, Las Vegas

“My partner and I booked a couples Tantra retreat with Sacred Dearmoring during a trip to Vegas, and it became the highlight of our year. We’ve been married 10 years and honestly were a bit out of sync intimately. Over our private workshop, we learned simple yet powerful techniques that brought us so much closer. We laughed, we cried, we rediscovered each other. Ron and his co-facilitator guided us with such grace – it never felt awkward, even though we were exploring pretty intimate things with basically strangers at first! By the end, they didn’t feel like strangers at all, but wise friends who led us into a new chapter of our marriage. We left not only with rekindled passion (our intimate life is sizzling again!), but also tools to communicate better and keep that spark alive. If you’re a couple considering this, do it. It’s the best investment we’ve ever made in our relationship.” – Michael & Sandra, 45 & 43

“I’ve had a few sessions with Sacred Dearmoring now, and each time was uniquely powerful. What struck me first was how clearly everything was explained before we began – boundaries, what to expect, all my questions answered – so I felt safe to fully let go. In one session we focused on dearmoring my heart and yoni. It was intense, but in a good way. I released emotions I’d been carrying since childhood; it felt like finally putting down a heavy burden. In another session, we did more of an energetic Tantra massage that sent me into waves of full-body bliss – something I didn’t even know I could experience! Through every up and down of the journey, Ron remained a steady, compassionate presence. He has a way of channeling pure positive energy through his hands. I felt completely seen, respected, and cared for. After our series of sessions, I honestly feel like a new woman – more open, more free, and more myself than ever before. This work is deeply healing, and I’m so thankful I found someone who approaches it with such integrity.” – Rachel, 38

Ready to Begin Your Journey?

If you’ve read this far, some part of you is ready for change. Perhaps you feel a spark of hope, a flutter of excitement, or even some nervous curiosity about what Tantra and dearmoring might unlock for you. I encourage you to honor that feeling – it’s your inner wisdom guiding you toward growth and healing.

Take the next step and reach out to learn more or schedule a session. The best way to start is with a friendly, no-pressure conversation. I offer a complimentary 15-minute consultation call where we can get to know each other. You can ask questions, share what you’re looking for, and together we’ll explore how Sacred Dearmoring can support you. This call is free and truly about finding the right fit – whether that means booking a session, suggesting a different approach, or even recommending other resources, I’m here to help you find what serves your highest good.

Visit our website (sacreddearmoring.com) to easily schedule your free consultation or your first session. You’ll also find additional articles and resources here if you want to learn more about these practices. If you prefer, you can send us a message through this platform or an email with a bit about yourself and what you’re seeking. I read every message personally and will respond promptly to set up a time to chat.

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Whether you’re in Las Vegas or just visiting, Sacred Dearmoring is ready to provide a safe haven of healing and transformation. Give yourself permission to say “yes” to the bliss, freedom, and empowerment that await. Your body, heart, and spirit will thank you.

I look forward to connecting with you and being your guide on this beautiful path of Tantra, healing, and self-discovery. Remember, the journey of a thousand miles (or a thousand smiles, in this case) begins with a single step – or in this modern age, perhaps a single click or call. Reach out today, and let’s start creating the profound change you desire in your life.

A Friend’s Journey: From Broken to Blissful
I want to share the story of my friend Emily, who discovered firsthand how life-changing this work can be. Emily was a successful professional in her early 40s here in Las Vegas, but inside she felt empty and disconnected. Years of stress and a painful past had dulled her sparkle. Her marriage was suffering; she and her husband had become more like roommates than lovers. Traditional therapy helped a little, but something was still missing.

When I suggested she try a Tantra healing session, Emily was hesitant and nervous. But she gathered her courage and booked a Sacred Dearmoring massage. The result was nothing short of astonishing. During her first session, Emily told me she felt years of tension melt away. In that safe, nurturing space, she was able to release deep grief and trauma she had been carrying for too long. She cried tears of relief, then felt a warm wave of joy in her body that she hadn’t felt in ages. “I finally feel like myself again,” she later said, her eyes shining with gratitude.

Encouraged by this breakthrough, Emily invited her husband to join her for a couples Tantra session. Together, they learned to communicate through touch and breath. They laughed, they cried, and they held each other in ways they never had before. It was as if they fell in love anew – but this time with a deeper understanding and trust. Over the next few weeks, I watched Emily transform. She became more confident and radiant. Her anxiety dwindled, her marriage grew stronger, and even her friends noticed the positive change in her demeanor.

Emily’s journey shows what’s possible. She went from feeling broken and numb to alive, empowered, and connected. Whenever I see her now, she can’t stop smiling. This is the kind of healing and happiness I wish for you, too – and it’s absolutely within reach.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Q: What is Tantra, and is it only about sex?

A: Tantra is an ancient spiritual path from India that teaches profound connection – connection to yourself, to your partner, and to the energy of life. It often gets misunderstood as being “all about sex,” but in reality sex is just one part of Tantra. Tantra is about embracing the present moment fully and using all aspects of life (including intimacy) as gateways to greater awareness, love, and bliss. In practice, Tantra can involve meditation, breathing exercises, movement, and yes, sometimes intimate touch, all done consciously and respectfully. The style of Tantra we practice at Sacred Dearmoring is focused on healing and personal growth. We do incorporate sensual and sexual energy in our sessions, but the intent is therapeutic and spiritual – to help you heal, open up, and connect with yourself more deeply. It’s not about sexual gratification or performance. Think of a Tantra session as a guided experience in mindful, sacred intimacy. It can be deeply pleasurable, but it’s also emotionally enriching and often quite spiritual. So, Tantra is not only about sex – it’s about wholeness. It’s about learning to be present in your body, to feel and move energy, and to remove the blocks that keep you from fully experiencing love and joy. Whether you’re single or with a partner, Tantra can help you experience intimacy in a healthier, more conscious way. And don’t worry – you don’t need to be “good at” anything or have any prior experience to benefit from it. We will guide you every step of the way.

Q: What happens during a Tantra massage session?

A: In a typical Tantra massage session, we start by talking about your intentions, comfort level, and boundaries. Once you feel ready, you’ll lie down in a warm, private space with soft music and low lighting to help you relax. I’ll guide you through some deep breathing to quiet your mind. Then the massage begins with gentle, flowing strokes over your whole body, using warm oils to ease muscle tension. As you relax, I may incorporate more sensual or energetic touch (always within the boundaries you’ve agreed to). You might be asked to breathe in certain patterns or even make soft sounds, which helps move your energy. If you have consented to intimate touch (such as yoni or lingam massage), I will approach those areas slowly and respectfully, checking in with you as we go. The focus is on building pleasure and energy gradually, not rushing to any goal. Toward the end of the session, we take a few minutes of quiet rest so you can absorb the feelings and insights. I’ll gently bring you back with grounding touch or words when you’re ready. We’ll then have a short check-in, where you can share anything you experienced (only if you want to) and I can offer aftercare tips. Throughout the entire session, you are in control – you can speak up, ask questions, or request changes at any time. Every session is a little different because it flows according to what you need, but you will always be cared for with utmost respect, presence, and professionalism.

Q: Do I have to be completely nude during the session?

A: Your comfort is the priority. No, you do not have to be nude if you’re not comfortable with that. Many clients choose to undress fully for a Tantra massage because it allows uninhibited access to the whole body and can help them feel more free. However, this is always your choice. We will discuss what clothing (or lack of clothing) you’re comfortable with before we begin. You can remain partially clothed or draped with a sheet if that makes you feel safer. If and when intimate massage is involved, those areas would need to be uncovered, but this will only happen with your explicit consent at the time. Often, we start with you covered by a sarong or sheet, and as trust and relaxation build, you might decide to remove it – but you remain in control of that decision throughout. I am skilled at maintaining modesty with draping techniques if needed. The key is that you should feel safe and relaxed. Being nude is not required to have a powerful Tantra experience. Some first-timers keep their underwear on initially and then choose to remove it later once they feel more at ease – that’s perfectly fine. Rest assured, whether you are clothed or unclothed, the atmosphere remains completely respectful and focused on your healing. Nudity in this context is never sexual in a goal-oriented way; it’s simply a natural part of allowing energy to flow without barriers, if you’re comfortable with it. Whatever you decide, I will work with it and make sure you feel secure.  Also note, that during a professional tantra massage or dearmoring session, the practitioner should not be nude and it should NOT be a mutually pleasurable experience.  Read more about . . . How to find REAL tantra in Las Vegas and avoid the untrained and unsafe amateurs 

Q: Is Tantra massage legal in Las Vegas?

A: Yes, authentic Tantra massage and healing sessions like those offered by Sacred Dearmoring are legal therapeutic services. We operate strictly as a professional healing and educational practice. What that means is there is no sexual activity or intercourse happening in our sessions – our focus is on therapeutic touch, energy work, and personal growth. In Nevada (and Las Vegas in particular), prostitution and any exchange of sexual acts for money are illegal outside of licensed brothels. We are very mindful of those laws. A Tantra massage at Sacred Dearmoring includes intimate touch only in a therapeutic context (for example, yoni or prostate massage for healing purposes) and always with full consent. This kind of work falls under the umbrella of holistic healing or somatic therapy. I am a certified practitioner, not an escort. My sessions are often compared to seeing a licensed massage therapist or a Reiki/energy healer, but with the added dimension of working with sensual energy for healing. Everything we do is with integrity: clients are treated as students or receivers of a therapeutic service, and I maintain professional boundaries and a code of ethics. So while Tantra massage might sound “taboo” to some because it can involve sexual energy, rest assured that we conduct our practice legally and ethically. If you have any concerns about this, we can discuss them in your consultation. Your comfort and peace of mind are important – and knowing that you’re engaging in a legitimate healing modality can help you relax and fully benefit from the experience.  Additionally, if sex is offered during a “tantra massage” session by another practitioner . . . run away, that is not tantra that is adult entertainment.

Q: I’ve experienced sexual trauma/abuse – is Tantra or dearmoring right for me?

A: First of all, I want to acknowledge your courage in even considering this form of healing. The short answer is yes, many trauma survivors find Tantra and dearmoring extremely helpful, but we take things very slowly and carefully. Your safety and comfort come first. In our sessions, you are in control at all times. We will move at a pace that feels right for you. Often, initial sessions for someone with past trauma focus on establishing trust and safety. That might mean we start with clothed breathwork, guided relaxation, or very gentle touch on non-intimate areas. Over time, as you feel safer in your body and with me, we can explore deeper layers at your pace – and only as far as you want to go. Tantra, with its emphasis on presence, consent, and honoring boundaries, can actually be a beautiful way to reclaim your body and rewrite the narrative from one of violation to one of empowerment. Techniques like yoni dearmoring or prostate dearmoring are specifically aimed at releasing trauma stored in the tissues – but again, this is done with utmost sensitivity. We would use plenty of communication throughout a session, and a pause is always welcome. You will never be pressured to endure anything uncomfortable.

Many survivors I’ve worked with eventually find that Tantra and dearmoring help them feel safe in their bodies again. It can lead to healthier boundaries, the ability to experience pleasure without guilt or flashbacks, and a stronger sense of self. That said, everyone’s journey is unique. It’s completely normal to feel nervous, and we can even structure a session so that no intimate touch happens until you explicitly invite it.  I also encourage continuing with Sacred Intimacy Coaching or counseling alongside our work if you have that support, since combining them can be very beneficial.  It is very important to note that a Tantra Massage or attempted De-Armoring session by an untrained professional absolutely CAN BE unsafe and re-traumatizing!  It is EXTREMELY important to find a trauma-informed tantra practitioner and someone who has done their own deep work around emotional issues – You wouldn’t get your teeth fixed from a guy that went to one tooth-repair workshop, so don’t trust your sacred body temple and emotional body to just any random person that says they offer tantra.

In summary: Yes, Tantra and dearmoring can be profoundly healing for trauma, when you are ready, and with a professional. We will tailor everything to ensure it feels safe and empowering for you. Even if all you do in the first session is breathe and receive a gentle foot massage, that might be a huge step – and that’s okay! Over time, as trust builds, you can gradually reclaim parts of yourself that may have been shut down. You deserve to feel safe, whole, and joyous in your body. I’m here to help you on that journey with great care, patience, and compassion.

Q: Will I become aroused or is it okay if I do/don’t?

A: It’s completely normal to wonder about this. Arousal is a natural response during Tantra massage, in fact you might become highly aroused. That’s nothing to be embarrassed about – in fact, we treat it as a positive sign that your energy is awakening. We won’t rush or treat it like something that must be “finished”; instead, I’ll guide that energy through your body with breathing and gentle techniques so you can experience it without pressure.

On the other hand, it’s also okay if you don’t become noticeably aroused. Everyone’s body responds differently. Some people, especially if they’re dealing with anxiety or healing from trauma, might feel more emotional release or deep relaxation rather than sexual arousal during a session. That’s perfectly fine. This isn’t a performance or an exam – there’s no “right” way to respond. Whatever you experience is what’s right for you in that moment.

Remember, you are in charge of the session. Whether you experience waves of pleasure, a flow of tears, a fit of laughter, or just quiet peace, all of those responses are normal and welcome. I’m very comfortable with the human body’s natural reactions. If you do become aroused, we’ll just incorporate that energy into the healing process. If you don’t, we simply focus on other aspects of the experience. There is absolutely no judgment either way. The key thing to know is that Tantra is about allowing: allowing your body to feel what it feels, and using that as part of your healing and growth. So yes, you might become aroused – and that energy will be respected and guided in a healing way. And if you don’t become aroused, that’s equally okay – the session will still be working on whatever level is needed (emotional, energetic, etc.). In short, all of you is welcome here, and there’s no need to worry about how your body reacts. Just relax, breathe, and let the journey unfold.